While you’ll see me roll my eyes and sigh like a conservative old man at certain aspects of millennial culture, the internet is not one of them. I will proudly tell anyone that I love the internet. And not just because it’s full of memes and reassures you that at any point, you are not alone in your existential crises. The internet has created millions of opportunities for everyone since its conception – to start a business, meet other people, have a creative space to share their skills and talents.
For example, take blogging. I think it’s super cool how we can share our opinions and start conversations, all while allowing other people to capitalise on our knowledge through tutorials, recipes, guides. Moreover, connecting with likeminded individuals across the world would be much slower if communication was still done via messenger on horseback: the world is faster and more immediate on the internet. While this isn’t for everyone, I love it in moderation and thrive in an environment where everything is evolving and constantly moving forward. Moreover, as much as people like to separate the internet from the ‘real world’, they are becoming increasingly interconnected and influence each other on a daily basis, often for better rather than for worse (I mean, I highly doubt delicious vegan cafes would be popping up all over the place had it not been for the world wide web allowing the vegan message to spread like wildfire, if you excuse the unoriginal simile).
That being said, the online world has its drawbacks and from time to time, a break can benefit virtually all of us. Of course, there are people out these who depend on it to make a living, and whether you agree with such a career path or not, time off equates to less income. But in many cases, these people have found their thing and provided that they’re doing what they love, taking extensive breaks isn’t necessary except for in extenuating circumstances. Continue reading “Five Reasons to Take a Break From The Internet”
How ‘procrastination’ should be defined is something I’ve been thinking about a lot over these last couple of days. According to various online resources, it is the postponement of one task in favour of a less urgent, or a more enjoyable, activity. A blatant example is scrolling through twitter as a means of avoiding an essay which is due in a matter of hours, or watching ‘just one more episode’ of your favourite TV show when there are urgent work-related emails that need to be answered. While you value your long term goals, and a morsel of anxiety may sit at the back of your mind in regards to the consequences of not doing what needs to be done, but this is not enough to force your brain into prioritising long-term rewards over short-term gratification.
Some proponents of ‘hustle until you drop’ deem anything that is not contributing to your long term objectives, whether those are related to financial stability, fitness or moral fulfilment, a waste of time. Have you ever watched Netflix at any point in your life? You’re a lazy procrastinator. I’ve even seen someone give skincare the procrastination label. However, I have to disagree with this because frankly, we are not emotionless machines. Self-care is paramountly important. Entertainment exists for a reason – as humans, we need to enjoy ourselves on a regular basis, and set aside time to reap the benefits of all of our hard work. For sure, we have different staminas, and tolerate different workloads before we start to go crazy, but a lack of balance and overexertion will actually make you less productive and more prone to wasting time (I will return to this point later). Continue reading “Why and How I Avoid Procrastination”
Treating, or alleviating the symptoms of, mental illness is subjective. Articles on miracle cures, tips from fellow sufferers and Pinterest infographics fill the Internet and when researching self-help tips, at times I am more overwhelmed by the abundance of information than the oncoming panic attack.
Many people do not realise I suffer from anxiety, even though it has loomed over me throughout my life, whether as a side effect of another mental illness or in a generalised form. Perhaps this is an outcome of my body having developed a profound ability to mask any physical symptoms. I make that pre-rehearsed phone inquiry through my stomach doing literal summersaults. I cling onto my pen in exam halls and regurgitate two years’ worth of knowledge in forty minutes. Once, I delivered a presentation in front of a very substantial audience and came close to unconsciousness, yet when I mentioned this to my friends a few hours later, I received a few raised eyebrows in response.
‘We didn’t notice – at all,’ they said. ‘You’re a natural at public speaking.’
The shirt I had to throw away due to excessive perspiration certainly didn’t think so. Continue reading “The One Trick That Actually Helps My Anxiety”
I’m clever. There, I said it. Of course, I’m no rocket scientist or one of those miraculous teenage entrepreneurs with a billion dollar startup, but someone with my academic record deserves that qualifier. I, like many others, am cursed with over-the-top modesty. An urge to undermine one’s achievements, skills and ambitions at every opportunity, which can equate in annoyance to an inflated ego.
Cockiness is an undesirable quality for sure, and most of us withhold from befriending people who speak of nothing other than themselves and their greatness. And in fear of appearing cocky ourselves, we spiral into a trap of persistent self-deprecating humour and a reluctance to acknowledge the traits which distinguish us from the crowd. I did not see this as an issue – because labelling yourself ‘trash’ is the thing to do nowadays. Then one day, while speaking to a psychologist, I joked about my ‘stupidity’ and she told me to ‘stop right there’. She rightfully highlighted how an offhand self-deprecating statement, whether reflective of your true beliefs or not, can influence your actions and perception of yourself on a subconscious level. Most of the time, the idea of pretentiousness displeases me so much, I cannot compliment myself in my head, let alone out loud. Successful at a job interview? The other candidate must’ve not turned up. Great exam results? You were lucky. Skin looks great? It must be the lighting.
Continue reading “A Note On Excessive Modesty and Fear of Ambition”
Hi dears! Cheers to the second weekend of September: I can definitely sense the colder season creeping in with the recent weather conditions over here, and my nostalgia over summer has grown stronger with each day. Let’s hope Christmas-related excitement replaces it soon.
Anyway, what is a Buddha Bowl? Essentially, it is a combination of nourishing foods thrown together and served with some type of dressing – or, in my experience, they’re just as delicious when eaten ‘plain’. To me, they represent eating in abundance while staying far, far away from portion control and no carb diets which are thrown at us by the mass media on a daily basis. I mean, who wants to live off detox teas when you can reach your health&fitness goals by eating something as delicious as one of these?!
Aside from that, I can think of quite a few reasons for why Buddha Bowls are a big deal in the foodie world:
- While delivering a multitude of health benefits, they’re super easy to make and require little preparation. Healthy eating doesn’t have to be difficult, and for those who struggle to ‘eat the rainbow’, a well-crafted Buddha Bowl can be a perfect solution because by throwing together all the fruits, veggies and grains you can find, you’re getting in those crucial vitamins and minerals with little thought.
- They’re super satisfying and energising – perfect for those of us who love big portions. I certainly do, and I am not ashamed.
- It’s a great way to clean out the fridge and use up leftovers. Whenever I find Tupperware boxes of lentils and failed avocado roses clogging up the fridge, I know it’s time to make a Buddha Bowl.
- By keeping yours plantbased, it can be your first step towards doing something good for the planet as well as receiving all the health benefits of including more plants in your diet.
I’m by no means an expert, but I’ve complied a step-by-step guide to making your bowl of deliciousness, also including an example recipe below. You can make yours as simple or as complicated as you wish, skipping some of these steps and/or adding new ones along the way. There is no ‘one size fits all’ approach to making a Buddha Bowl: be sure to experiment, mix ‘n’ match your ingredients, try out weird combinations, because who knows, you might end up surprising yourself! Continue reading “How to make the perfect Buddha Bowl”
I don’t know about you, but I am a tiny bit (read: very) obsessed with cheesecake. I’m also fascinated by anything that has a particular ingredient in the title but tastes nothing like that ingredient (carrot cake is another example). This recipe is super easy, and this is coming from a girl who mostly invests her culinary skills into savoury dishes and bakes maybe once a month – although, I’m definitely trying to do it more because baking is always super fun. The ingredient list is relatively short and uncomplicated, so this is perfect if you need an emergency gift to bring to a social event and don’t have time to search around for obscure-sounding super foods. I personally had a slice as a bit of pre-workout fuel because as usual I was craving something sweet after dinner and was a perfect solution.
Continue reading “Easy and Fruity Vegan Cheesecake”
Now, by making this post I certainly am not calling myself a travel blogger. I’m sure there are people out there who spend their lives trekking the globe alone and can give a much more thorough insight into the experience. Moreover, staying in a large hotel made my trip to Rhodes a lot easier. But the blogging world, I believe, is all about individual experience and insight, and you guys just have to keep in mind that my viewpoint is by no means all encompassing or objective.
As mentioned above, I went to Rhodes for my first solo trip abroad, which is quite a typical Greek island with some stunning beaches (I feel like I will always prefer beach holidays to city breaks because I am totally obsessed with the sea!) and delicious cafes. Speaking of food, I’ve noticed it’s becoming incrementally easier to find vegan options even within Mediterranean menus which tended to be very cheese and fish heavy in the past, but are now much more accommodating to various dietary requirements – seems like telling people you’re vegan within two minutes of conversation is making a difference! Anyway, it was quite a last minute booking as after three weeks of travel in Russia I was burnt out but upon experiencing a few days of British weather I decided I neeeeded to get some sun and thirty degree weather this year. My mum, although she would’ve loved to come, couldn’t get time off work and feeling inspired by a friend who did a solo trip to Germany, I decided to do it alone. A spontaneous decision, but one I do not regret given the overall positivity of my trip!
So, let’s start with me outlining the pros of travelling alone (from my experience): Continue reading “Travelling Alone: the Pros and Cons”